Why the church keeps losing it’s grounds.

Growing up I had no memory of churches having so many fragments; but with time so many divisions started to arise. Protestants, Anglicans, Methodist, Baptist, Evangelical ministries, Healing missions you name them, they exist. Even within these sections lie a further division of some sort that has to do with preaching style, dressing styles, and rules that influence people’s general lifestyles. Is that really what the gospel hoped to achieve? I don’t think so.

The level of division with the church became more obvious (to me at least) in Uni, they were so many fellowships and churches to choose from, but I became a bit put off with the way they introduced themselves. It seemed too much like a marketing strategy/campaign.

“Join us because we have a great choir, the best on campus,”

“Join us because we are the cool Christian group in school,”

“Become one of us because we pray and live a conservative lifestyle,”

The worst part was if you didn’t accept the invite some people took it really personal going as far to question your faith, I found that very wrong. Surely the message of Christ is love, unity and oneness, a message that surpasses any particular church, group or denomination. Professing my faith and living for Him daily in words and actions, in open and in secret should outweigh speaking the lingo of a particular denomination, or dressing according to a particular code.

Moving to the UK I found the church plagued by a different set of problems depending on the congregation. In a predominantly white congregation you find the word of God is limited to an extent with regard to how much influence it should have on us, it is only allowed to affect certain lifestyle choices and not others. You also find the socializing accept of the meeting is slightly overemphasised, thus anyone whose culture of socializing doesn’t align might be frowned upon or misunderstood.

On the other-hand in a predominantly black congregation, you find the words of the pastor/visioner/leader to be overemphasised. His/hers interpretation of the Bible is seen as final, people are often made to see things only through the leaders eyes. People are credited importance based on how much of the Christian lingo they speak and whether they speak in the same manner as the leader. You are evaluated on your dressing and lifestyle; the bigger, louder and vibrant the more popular you are. Most times  the leader’s authority cannot be questioned.IMG-20150829-WA0007

On both accounts you find the central message of Christ’s’ love is lost, the welcome and acceptance of people for who they are whilst praying for God to change them is gone. Culture is promoted, leaders are revered, membership matters more than follower-ship and religious façade is celebrated rather than character. Are we following Christ or him/her? Can you question your leader, can you admit his wrong in front of others, do you check what his ideologies are against the word of God? Is he/she open to discussing their guiding values? Are you accountable to God in secret and in truth or to those who you consider members of the same faith. The church is losing its hold because it’s losing sight of its God in totality. It’s either all or nothing.

Romans 12 vs 4-5: “For as in one body we have many members and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.”

1 Corinthians 1 vs 11 -13: “For I have been informed concerning you, my brethren, by Chloe’s people, that there are quarrels among you. Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am of Paul,” and “I of Apollos,” and “I of Cephas,” and “I of Christ.” Has Christ been divided? Paul was not crucified for you, was he? Or were you baptised in the name of Paul?”

Colossians 2 vs 8: “See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ,”

6 thoughts on “Why the church keeps losing it’s grounds.

  1. An interesting and well-reasoned post, Chioma. I agree that the different denominations are very confusing, as is the way the different services are held – and the emphasis placed upon different aspects of it. I think most of them have moved a long way from what they set out to be originally. So many churches of all denominations have very small congrefations (in Britain) nowadays. 🙂

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      1. Most churches in the UK are like that, Chioma. The one in our village now only has a congretation of more than halfa dozen at special times of the year. The next one is the hravest festival in a few weeks’ time. There are so many reasons for the decline, but in many ways, although it’s a shame to see the decline, it’s understandable. Sunday is no longer a day of rest and many people work, for one thing. And I won’t go into all the other things, like the big turn away from faith. I’m sure we could both write a long essay on it. As I said, your post was very thought-provoking.

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  2. Reblogged this on Belgian Ecclesia Brussel – Leuven and commented:
    The biggest problem in our capitalist world is that the church has lost its connection with its cornerstone Christ Jesus and that it is losing its hold because it’s losing sight of its God in totality.

    Often in Christian communities the people in the parish expect others to speak in the same Christian lingo they speak and when they do hear you using other words than accustomed in their denomination they consider you as an invader or dangerous mole perhaps infecting their congregation.
    In many countries and regions visitors are also evaluated on their dressing and naturally everybody is questioned about their lifestyle. Often there an other problem arises and we can see that the bigger, louder and vibrant the more popular a person can be.
    Further in many denominations it is weird that the only one who seems to be authorised to speak the truth is the ‘sacred’ leader who in most instances cannot be questioned.

    Those who want to look for the truth and find a true Body of Christ community should seek a place where not the preacher’s word are dominant, but where most time of the worship service is used for the Word of God, reading in the Holy Scriptures.

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